How to make a memory bear from a loved one's clothes

A memory bear is a teddy bear sewn from the clothing of someone you love, and a first one takes about 4 hours. You need roughly one shirt for a small bear, and two or three shirts if you want a large one.

What is a memory bear?

A memory bear (also called a keepsake bear) turns a favorite shirt, a flannel, a baby outfit or a robe into a soft toy. Families make them after a loss, for a new baby, or for a child whose parent is deployed. The fabric already carries the colors and textures the person wore, which is the whole point.

What clothing works best?

Choose clothing the person wore often. Cotton shirts, flannel, linen, fleece, denim and knit tees all work. A few rules:

• Woven cotton is easiest for first-timers because it does not stretch.
• Knit (T-shirt) fabric is stretchy. Fuse lightweight interfacing to the back first so it holds its shape.
• Avoid very thin or slippery fabrics such as silk unless you add interfacing.
• Wash and dry the clothing first, then press it flat.

Cut off buttons, pockets and labels you want to keep. They can be sewn on later, so the bear includes something personal.

How many shirts does it take to make a memory bear?

The Memory Bear pattern comes in 10 sizes, from 6 inches to 24 inches in 2 inch steps. A typical shirt gives enough fabric for a bear of about 12 inches. For 18 to 24 inches, plan on two or three shirts. If you are not sure, cut a trial piece from a spare cloth first.

These are guides, not rules. Fabric with large prints or stripes needs extra to match pieces.

How do I sew a memory bear?

The method is the same as sewing any small plush. Our guide to how to sew a plushie covers the basics. In short:

1. Print the pattern and cut the paper pieces. Mark the grainline on each.
2. Plan which part of the shirt goes where. Place the favorite detail, such as a pocket or a sleeve button, on the chest or paw.
3. Cut every piece, including mirrored pairs, with a ¼ inch seam allowance if your pattern says so.
4. Sew the head, body, arms and legs with small stitches, about 2 mm long, so the stuffing does not push through.
5. Clip the curves, turn right side out and stuff firmly, little by little.
6. Close the gap with a ladder stitch.

Expect about 240 minutes. This pattern is rated intermediate because of the curves and the stuffing, so take breaks.

Can I make other animals?

Yes. The same set includes a Memory Bunny, Memory Cat, Memory Dog and Memory Elephant, each in the same 10 sizes. Read more on the memory bear pattern from a shirt page.

Tips for a bear you will treasure

• Use fiberfill stuffing. Fill the arms and legs first, then the head, then the body.
• Embroider a name, date or initials on a foot. Do this before assembly while the fabric is flat.
• Choose safe eyes for children under 3. Embroidered eyes are safer than buttons.
• Make a spare. Cut extra fabric so you can repair the bear later.

Make it with Sewzy

Sewzy gives you the print-at-home PDF (Letter, A4 and an A0 copy-shop file), all 10 sizes, and a written step-by-step guide in the app. The AI sewing coach can help if something goes wrong. Sewzy is iPhone only: $3.99 per week or $29.99 per year, with a 3-day free trial. Get Sewzy on the App Store.

FAQ

How much clothing do I need for a memory bear?

One adult shirt is usually enough for a bear of about 12 inches. For 18 to 24 inch bears plan on two or three shirts.

How long does a memory bear take to sew?

About 4 hours (240 minutes) for a first bear. The pattern is rated intermediate.

What sizes does the Sewzy memory bear come in?

10 sizes from 6 inches to 24 inches in 2 inch steps. All sizes are included.

Can I use stretchy T-shirt fabric?

Yes, but fuse lightweight interfacing to the back first so the fabric does not stretch while you sew and stuff.

Is a memory bear safe for a baby?

Use embroidered eyes and nose rather than buttons or beads, and sew with small stitches. Check with the family before giving it to a child under 3.